The second lesson learned from my dad is a line I heard from him time and time again,  and that is, I must have a heart as strong and daring as a #tiger 🐅 💙

In Gujarati my dad would often tell me wagh nu kalju rakhje literally translated as have a tiger’s heart.

This has four meanings. One, in difficult times hold your nerve and believe in yourself no matter what.

Second, don’t let anyone tell you how to live your life.

Third, don’t give anyone the licence to tell you what to do unless you want them to.

Fourth, don’t be afraid of anything or anyone.

My Dad called me maro wagh in an affectionate way. That means ‘my tiger’. Parents often have fond pet names for their children and he always told me I was strong as a tiger and I could fight my own battles.

His advice to have a tiger’s heart has come to my aid whenever I’ve faced tough situations or challenging encounters. A parent always believes in their child and wants them to be strong but much of what we embrace in later life is based on the language and words we heard as we were growing up. His words were empowering, strategic and impactful.

I know it took some time for him to accept my decision not to marry but once he accepted it, he always told me I was capable of handling anything. He readily conceded I didn’t need a man to take care of me, now for a man of his generation that was #revolutionary thinking.

So the lesson learned from my dad is to have a heart as strong as a tiger. This has been my friendly reminder to believe in me.

In our personal and professional journey situations may warrant us to have the gumption to stand our ground and ride the wave or face the situation head on. We can’t do this if we are unsure of ourselves.

I’m grateful to my dad for this one line that I’ve kept in my armour.

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© DMP